Christmas weddings and frozen car doors

There must be some women having second thoughts about a Christmas wedding--or maybe it's Spring. My "How not to marry a jerk" post has been getting a lot of hits lately. Maybe it's gay guys realizing that now that they can, it's time to rethink this. Not as many as "frozen car door"--some really cold weather north and west of us, but enough to make me think someone, maybe Mom, has noticed some problems. I put the jerk (not the car door) into 3 categories, might be, definitely is, and run as fast as you can. With frozen car doors, I just listed a range of possibilities. Seems no one agrees. But one commenter defended her jerk, too.