Monday, January 23, 2006

2067 Young People in Debt

This morning I read a book review of Tamara Draut's "Strapped." Draut says that today's young adult children of the baby boomer generation can't get ahead financially because of astronomical student debts, depressed wages, rising health care costs and soaring property values. The solutions offered by some young adults are silly and counterproductive--"the government should do something."
If I've heard it once, I've heard it a hundred times, "things aren't like they were in your day." I agree. We had it much harder, thank goodness. We started married life with an 8 year old car and eventually went on foot and bicycle when the car died. But our parents, who had been teens during the Depression, thought we had it easy--and frankly, so did I.

I believe there are a few basics that still apply, so I'll just jump right in on Ms. Draut's coat tails. So if your mama was a baby boomer and went into debt or worked two jobs to give you everything you asked for rather than what you actually needed, you may just have to go back to grandma's methods if you want to turn this around in your generation.

1. Postpone your wants and take care of your needs.

2. Tithe your gross income to your church or synagogue.

3. If you have two incomes, save one and live on the other for month to month expenses. Use the "other" account for new tires, a leaky roof or a health emergency, but if you're using it to buy groceries and movie tickets, you'll never get ahead.

4. Borrow money only for a home mortgage or car loan.

5. Pay off all credit cards in 30 days to avoid charges and interest.

6. Never put groceries on your credit card. If it won't last until the bill comes, don't put it on the card.

7. Buy less house than the bank says you can manage. Instead, go for the best, safest and most convenient neighborhood you can afford. Same for renting if you are still in that stage.

8. Children get very little from fancy vacations that they can't get from something closer to home. It's your time they want. Take them to a state park, family farm or the local amusement park and save the tours or cruises for "couple time."

9. NEVER let the children see or hear you obsessing over brand names, styles and models, whether it's clothes, cars or appliances. Don't take them to the mall as an event.

10. Meals will cost you either time or money. If you can contribute your own labor you'll save a lot of money, fat and sodium. Save eating out for "date night."

Here's two tips about the English language: SALE is a four letter word that means SPEND, and CREDIT is a six letter word for DEBT.

Ms. Draut's testimony in 2004 for Demos (a liberal think tank) before the Subcommittee on Financial Institutions and Consumer Credit.


4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thanks for the very helpful tips! :o)

Three Score and Ten or more said...

The only suggestion I would add is to pay yourself (in a savings account) the same amount you tithe to your church. Believe it or not you can live on the remainder and you will thank yourself someday in the future. (Tithes are interesting, when I was a graduate student living on a teaching stipent with four kids, tithes were easy. (fifteen bucks?) When I got older, and could afford more, that ten percent seemed a lot bigger (450 dollars???)
It still works though, both to the church and to yourself.

Harrison said...

One more thing... If ya' really wanna' help your kids learn the value of money, attach real chores to gettin' their allowance. Can't tell ya' how many I run into these days who just get handed the bucks with no expectations of havin' to "earn" it.

MajorDad said...

Wow! I probably couldn't have said it better myself!

Now, being 43...I have to confess that I've not always been as thrifty or smart as I would like to think I am now, but that's what growing up is all about. The other thing I'd say is it's always a good thing to learn from mistakes. It's even better if you're able to use someone else's mistakes as a guideline!

I live in an Army town and see the mistakes every day. Young soldiers driving vehicles that easily cost double their annual salaries, cell phones and gadgets hanging from their hips, and satellite dishes perched on the railings of barracks rooms. No, no way that they can be living within their means. Then let's add Susie Swivelhips to the equation.

They decide to get married, because they're in love. They head downtown to the local manufactured home dealer and are sold a double-wide, a half acre lot, and a big ole mortgage to pay off. One thing leading to another, there's another mouth or two to feed...the money gets stretched to the breaking point. Arguments ensue, divorce, bankruptcy, repossession...

Folks...this could happen in any town, but I see it first hand every day.

Listen to this wise blogger. Learn to live within your means. Don't buy more than you can afford to pay while at the same time saving for your futures! I wish I'd done it earlier...but at least I got halfway smart by the time I was 30. I've got money in the bank, a home, and two rental properties. You can live better than you think even if you don't have the latest and greatest of everything!

The last thing you want to do is rely on the government. I've worked for them for 26 years...you can do better for yourself than some bureaucrat. Ask the folks in Louisiana, Mississippi and Alabama. I'm sure they all wish they'd been smart enough to take care of themselves at this point, rather than waiting for government to bail them out.

See you on the high ground!

MajorDad1984