What I wrote 4 years ago, May 25, 2019.
"If we're on your prayer list, thanks. It never hurts to be preemptive. We're OK. The fire has been put out, and we had some clean up. The cottage odor is a combination of Febreze, scented candles and burned butter. We had a wonderful meal at Sortino's (Sandusky, OH) on Thursday evening and came home with 5 carry out bags + bread. However, the 20" stove in our summer home wouldn't quite hold everything when we tried to warm up dinner the next evening and (we're blaming Bob) some fettuccini alfredo over flowed, dripping butter, which then caught on fire. The four of us in the tiny kitchen (think Keystone Cops) were a hoot, with Phoebe rescuing our dinner from the flames and Mark squelching the fire. It is cleaning week-end so we then had fine soot over our freshly washed cabinets, counters, and floors. BUT. No one was hurt and there's no permanent damage. Supper was delicious once we all settled down, and I think there's enough for tonight's dinner. I do plan to buy a new stove, though."Thursday, May 25, 2023
Thursday, August 29, 2019
Philomena the movie, HIV and Reagan
The U.S. was emerging from the boomer, free-sex and legalized abortion movements of the 1960s and 1970s, people were demanding privacy in all things sexual and personal, the gay lifestyle was increasingly being recognized for “loving and caring” relationships particularly in literature and the arts, healthy lifestyles and personal responsibility for health advocacy groups were growing. On top of all that, in the medical field researchers and university faculty were practically assuring us that the era and threat of infectious diseases was over. STDs were going to be held at bay not by responsible monogamous life styles, but with penicillin. I remember that from the medical journals I was handling in the library. Infectious disease journals were gathering dust.
President Reagan was blamed for the “gay disease” charge about HIV-AIDS in this movie. And yet if you read any CDC fact sheet today, virtually all new cases (83%) of HIV are among “men who have sex with men” and that includes bi-sexual men who then infect women.
The recommendations by the USPSTF on screening are in order of importance:
1) Male-to-male sex (every 3 to 6 months screened)So you see, in many cases it is still behavior and personal responsibility, not the federal government, which is your best protection from any sexual disease from syphilis to gonorrhea to AIDS. Don’t get advice on serious health matters from a movie with a political agenda.
And any risky life style comes next.
2) injection drug use
3) anal intercourse without a condom
4) more than one partner whose HIV status is unknown
5) transactional sex (exchanging sex for drugs)
6) commercial sex trade (prostitution)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rG3QP8foCvg Trailer
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2690288/
https://www.americanthinker.com/blog/2016/01/philomena_and_the_magical_sodomite_archetype.html
https://www.thebalance.com/who-funds-biomedical-research-2663193
https://www.pewresearch.org/science/2015/01/29/public-and-scientists-views-on-science-and-society/
Wednesday, August 28, 2019
Lakeside 2019, winding down, week 11
The Labor Day fireworks will be on Saturday, so we won’t miss them, since we’re usually not here on Labor Day. There are lots of social activities this week as people who are left wind down from a busy summer. We went to a nice neighborhood brunch on Sunday after dockside service—great waffles made on two very ancient waffle irons topped with real maple syrup and fresh fruit. I went out for breakfast and lunch on Tuesday. Breakfast with Joan at the Patio Restaurant and lunch at the Lakeside Women’s Club which was a noon potluck of just salads and desserts. Tonight we’ve invited our neighbor Tom for dinner—pork roast, pea salad, roasted butternut squash, and fresh fruit, then going to another neighbor’s for dessert. Bob has his last Guy’s Club lunch today—they always travel by motor boat to a local restaurant. Thursday is dinner with two other neighbors on Oak Ave.
This week is called Lakeside University with all the hosts/lecturers being Lakeside people or a town near-by. We had a lecture on Monday by the great granddaughter and her husband of R.E. Olds, of Oldsmobile and yachting fame. They have a cottage here. Another lecture on Tuesday was by the founder of our sailing club. There is an afternoon foreign films series, and the first two were on adoption themes, Philomena (English) and The Lion (Australian). Both are outstanding—if you have a chance, be sure to see them. Today I mentioned the films to my neighbor as we walked to the morning program, and she mentioned that she is adopted, and within the last year she found (or was found by) a half-brother. She said she had a wonderful life with her parents and had never been interested in searching (both films were about the search).
Top Hat the movie with Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers was the evening Hoover show on Tuesday—so much more fun with an audience. Another foreign film today, but I sat through about 30 minutes, and it seemed to be about the frailties of aging, dementia and government bureaucracy when he tries to build a house (Still Mine), so that didn’t seem entertaining and I left.
Today’s morning lecture was on the American Songbook by our wonderful musical director and vice president for programming, Michael Shirtz. At Hoover tonight there will be an actual performance by him—he sings and plays piano.
The lake was wild, windy and nasty on Sunday, but Monday and Tuesday was quite and calm. Monday night’s program, a piano player (boogie woogie) was moved from the gazebo to Hoover due to the weather, and he was very good.
And to top things off, we’re having the carpet cleaned on Friday. We’ve never done that but since it was installed in 1989, it’s time.
Friday, August 23, 2019
Lakeside 2019, Week 10, and Virtual Reality
I poked around at a few displays—the Methodists are having an apple dumpling fund raiser (have no idea why this is health related, except it’s fine fellowship and we all need friends and service); Magruder Hospital had a display on the danger of falls, but the ladies didn’t know how to keep my husband off the roof; and there were various “eastern” or meditative or movement programs that I don’t do.
I did, however, discover a new health related business by a woman entrepreneur which can assist hospice patients, shut-ins or nursing home residents reduce their pain, recall pleasant memories, and facilitate conversations with loved ones. It’s called “Immersive cure; virtual reality solutions.” Using virtual reality therapy it’s a non-pharmacological way to reduce stress, anxiety, depression and pain with a Gear VR Headset. Originally VR was used primarily for entertainment purposes, but in the last decade medical research has proven it effective for other uses.
As I sat in a chair waiting for the headset to be placed I learned that the CEO, Jessica Benson, of Medina, Ohio, had moved around a bit due to her husband’s career and then through a volunteer position at a hospital came up with this idea to provide personalized virtual experiences for people who are facility bound or too frail to travel. The option (right now I believe there are 6 one of which is veteran travel to monuments) I used was the “Lakeside experience.” With the gentle sounds of Lake Erie and nature sounds I was transported to the front lawn near the Celtic cross and fountain at Hotel Lakeside looking up, down and around, enjoying lake views and watching people strolling, and some plein air artists (filmed in July).
The kit which Ms. Benson provides includes the headset with controller, a smart phone, headphones, an infection control kit, and case for the equipment. She will educate the staff of the organization that purchases her services. She can also personalize this service for other areas and events that would be familiar for the shut-in.
For more information and comments by users, see Immersivecure.com
"Virtual reality and pain management: current trends and future directions" https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3138477/
Sickle cell disease. https://www.healio.com/hematology-oncology/hematology/news/online/%7B5ab0e2a2-6198-4b7e-9420-8dcbff9d958b%7D/virtual-reality-helps-reduce-pain-among-patients-with-sickle-cell-disease
https://interestingengineering.com/virtual-reality-can-help-relieve-severe-pain-in-patients-study-finds
https://www.gamerevolution.com/tech/417593-vr-labor-pain-study-samsung
Lakeside, 2019 Week 10, RV video
This is a lovely video made by a couple who have an RV channel on YouTube. They did a great story about Lakeside and were here during the Marilyn McCoo-Billy Davis Show. Street scenes are less populated since most families have gone home for the school year. More emphasis on the camp ground than most things I see—it’s not easy to get space there. About 17 minutes.
Tuesday, August 20, 2019
Sunday, August 18, 2019
Lakeside 2019, Week 9, the rest of the story
Friday morning we had our last class on clutter (Organization 101). One of the best stories was told by one in the audience who had collected elephants and needed to “let it go.” He had 3,000 of them. So he took a statue of 4—2 adults, an adolescent and a baby, all connected trunk to tail. It weighed 1,000 pounds. He decided to have it made into his grave marker and found a company that would do it! In life the instructor suggested we all need to learn “Let it Go” whether that be material accumulation or personal grievances.
In the afternoon Gretchen Curtis reviewed Marilla of Green Gables which is a prequel to Anne of Green Gables. I’d never read the Anne series, but Gretchen always does such a nice job, it didn’t really matter. Sat with my neighbor Dorothy.
There were several friends from UALC at Lakeside during Week 9, and for the Wednesday night picnic we all gathered at Perry park (east end), along with our neighbors Scott and Carol, to share a huge table. Shout out to Mary, Carol, Kelly and David, plus 2 of their friends from Westerville. It was a fun evening of hot dogs, chips, potato salad, baked beans, watermelon and cookies.
I found the morning lectures somewhat disappointing for Week 9. The speaker was Jack Barlow of Juniata College in Huntingdon, Pa.(Church of the Brethren college). His conservative vita looked good, Claremont Graduate School and Carleton College, but he definitely leaned left. He didn't call our Constitution "evolving" or "plastic," but that was the sense I had. After the Tuesday lecture during the Q & A I raised that issue, and asked him if his students would feel free to disagree (virtually all institutions of high learning weed out conservatives so now there are very few among ranks of faculty, even in religious private institutions). He didn't deny being liberal, but assured the audience it didn't affect his students. That's odd. I picked up on it immediately, and if I were a student, I think I'd know how to frame my papers or answers to please a professor. Anyway, after the lecture there were 5 or 6 people who came up to me an whispered they were so happy I spoke up. The fact they had to whisper is indicative of the anti-Trump and anti-conservative bias we face here. Then as I headed home, a man caught up with me on Walnut and said he admired me for saying something. He was not a "Lakesider" as we think of it, and was only in town two days, being a regular at Chautauqua, NY. He and his wife talked to me for about 10 minutes, saying they were from West Virginia and had been on a very interesting trip including Michigan, Ohio, Pennsylvania, etc., and decided to stop in Lakeside since they'd never heard of it before this trip. He too had lost long time friends and family for being a conservative and voting for Trump.
Monday night we thoroughly enjoyed the silent movie selection "The Kid Brother," (1927) with Harold Lloyd. The organist was Clark Wilson, and he gave an intro and provided a wonderful background for the movie. Tuesday night was the program Bob had been looking forward to--a classical guitarist playing with the Symphony Orchestra--Colin Davin.
https://www.youtube.com/user/colindavinguitar
The opening of Week 9 (Saturday August 10) was Brian Regan, a comedian, and we'd never heard of him, but he's apparently popular on late night TV, because the place was packed with an overflow crowd standing in the back of Hoover. Very clean, no rough language. Nothing political. A great show.
Monday, August 12, 2019
Lakeside 2019, a great Sunday
I'm feeling a big sluggish this morning--had to sit on a bench and enjoy the sunrise during my morning walk. Tough, huh? Too many calories on Sunday.
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| Taking out the Kullberg grandchildren |
| Enjoying the concert with Mary and Carol |
| Concert in the Park, "Moment's Notice" |
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| Bob and Rev. Jennings |
Tuesday, August 06, 2019
Lakeside 2019, a quiet but eventful Monday
Last night's programs in Lakeside were wonderful. The growing popularity of "Porch Stories" shows people want to know their neighbors' stories. It's based on the very organic movement called The Moth. https://themoth.org/stories Two Lakesiders told fascinating tales of events that changed their lives. In summer 2017 a group decided to try the Moth Story format here and arranged for a few porches. However, as the interest in the group grew, it moved to the Women’s Club, and when it outgrew that, to the Chautauqua Hall in the Fountain Inn.
Then we walked across the street to Hoover to hear songwriter/musician Marcus Hummon https://www.marcushummon.net/ tell a few tales and sing some of his songs--he's worked with Wynonna Judd (who was here a week ago), Rascal Flatts, Sara Evans and the Dixie Chicks, and he's seen it all. I really chuckled at his stories of "feeling old" as he tries to relate to some of the younger, rising stars.
This week is multi-faith, peace week (name changes from year to year), but studying peace and world religions has never excited me (except when I was college age), so instead we did a tour of the old 1912 school house on 7th (south end). Until the late 1950’s Lakeside had its own school system, but like many other small towns Lakeside year round residents have been folded into a larger system and are now included in Danbury (Marblehead). Lakeside’s property taxes are the golden goose for that system since it has so few children. Their computers should be gold platted.
I thought the building resembled the old elementary school in Mt. Morris that my siblings and I attended in the 40s and 50s, but it’s actually newer. The Mt. Morris building served for over 100 years, and originally was both high school and elementary. The Lakeside school apparently served 40+ years. Architecture is similar. The soaring ceilings and enormous windows it could be wonderful when restored.
Monday, August 05, 2019
Lakeside 2019, a great August week-end
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On Sunday morning the weather was perfect for worship on the east side of the pavilion. After breakfast at the Patio with Nancy and Marilyn, I also went to the worship service in Hoover to hear the pastor of the week, Rev. Becca A. Stevens who manages a ministry in Nashville called Thistle Farms. It's a refuge and retraining facility for victims of trafficking, violence and addiction. Her husband provided the special music, and he will be the program on Monday evening.
The Sunday afternoon on the lawn of the hotel and the pavilion has been called the FIRST Blues, Views and BBQ Festival. Two different bands, Colin Dussault Blues Project of Cleveland and Sean Carney of Columbus, horse carriage rides, a delicious meal (we didn't do that part, but people said it was fabulous), all with Lake Erie, a wonderful wind and the Regatta.
Friday, August 02, 2019
Lakeside 2019, Week 7
We returned on Saturday with everything in great shape--Mark had been trimming the bushes, watering, raking and washed the deck. Phoebe had everything spotless and put fresh sheets on the beds. We all went out for lunch and then they headed for home--and probably a rest! It was very hot the week they were here, so they skipped the "Guess Who" performance, which I heard from my friends was fabulous.
That evening the program was Wynonna Judd and The Big Noise. It was a super evening, packed the house, and that woman has a range I've hardly ever heard. There's no better place to show off a big voice than Hoover Auditorium. She really didn't do much "country," so those who stayed away because they don't like that genre, missed a lot. We left after her last song, but I understand she continued for another 30 minutes. I could have done without her remarks about her mother, as I don't think she'd be where she is today if it hadn't been for "The Judds." She had great rapport with the children and invited them to the stage for photos and selfies.
Sunday was a VERY full day, with some surprises. It was the day for the Raccoon Run (5 mile marathon), so the lakefront church service was moved to the gazebo which got a huge overhaul in the spring, and now has pavers and new benches. Then we went to the Patio Restaurant with my friend Nancy for lunch. After a nap I headed for the Heritage Hall lecture about Confederate monuments in the north (we have one here on the peninsula on Johnson's Island). Nancy went with me, and was anxious to leave before Q & A, but I didn't think much about it. When we got to the cottage I got a big surprise--Bob had planned, and pulled off, an 80th birthday party for me (which was 50 days early). Lots of laughter, and great food from Bassett's. One of the best cakes I've tasted.
That evening we went back to the gazebo to hear a polka band from Chardon. They were very good and the hot weather had disappeared--only beautiful wind and sunset over the lake.
It was the end of the art show. Bob got a second place ribbon and it sold, so we had some cash on hand. The other painting, which was actually the best (of our neighbors watching the regatta), was sold to the subjects.
On Monday I did go to the program on -- well, something about the planets, but didn't stay long. That afternoon I attended the book discussion at the Lakeside Women's Club of "Lillian Boxfish takes a Walk" by Kathleen Rooney. Bob and I then attended the Backstage at Hoover tour, which was great fun and so interesting. Lakeside is trying to raise money to replace this 91 year old structure in the back of Hoover where the performers dress and bring in their props. There are some programs we can't provide because there is no room for the equipment or instruments.
That night we had a pot luck for the communion servers and ushers for the 8:30 service on the lakefront. We don't necessarily know the people Bob serves with, so spent some time introducing ourselves and chatting. A sudden storm blew up and God blessed us with a fabulous rainbow--which you can see behind us between the 2nd and 3rd pillar.
After the potluck we drove to the train station near the mobile home park in south Lakeside for a "book in hand" performance of a play by George Bernard Shaw by the LKSD Playreaders. Then home to bed. . . tired but happy.
The Tuesday program at the Lakeside Women's Club was "Hers and Hymns: Women composers and Lyricists with soprano Jeanine Donaldson of Lorain and Errol Browne, her accompanist who also sang. On Wednesday and Thursday mornings I attended lectures on Zero Energy Buildings by Ann Edminster. Our neighbors were out of town, so we had their son Jack, 14, for dinner Tuesday evening. He's a really sweet guy--going into high school, and now sails lasers and wins races, so he doesn't need our model sailboat on our porch which fascinated him 4 years ago. The girls are starting to hang around their cottage which we can see from our front porch.
On Wednesday afternoon I sat in on a group discussion of Artists' Way led by Dee (Baker) a UMC retired pastor at the lovely Idlewyld Bed and Breakfast. In the evening we had dinner with the Barrises at their B & B with Dee and her husband. Wednesday evening was the opening of the 2019 symphony season with our new director, Daniel Meyer. Dvorak (violin concerto in A minor) and Tchaikovsky (Symphony no. 4 in F minor) made it a very exciting evening with guest violinist Jinjoo Cho who has been here a number of times. We've been sitting in the aisle with all the residents of the nursing home so that I can stay on a flat surface.
On Thursday evening it was wonderfully cool and low humidity. After dinner on the deck and a stroll to the lakefront to sit on a bench to watch the boaters, we enjoyed the group RUNA at Hoover with tunes of Ireland and Scotland in jazz, bluegrass, flamenco and blues. Later this morning I'll go to another Chef Stacy class. This evening is Sandy Patti who always puts on a great show.
Tomorrow evening (that's week 8) there is a volunteer recognition picnic under a tent near the lake, and then at 8:15 the second performance of the symphony with Verb Ballets, a contemporary company. The program includes Felix Mendelssohn's Italian Symphony, Adagio for Two Dancers and Carmen Suite.
Sunday, July 28, 2019
The signs of Lakeside
These signs are political, but those who host them in front of their cottages refuse to call them that. For thousands of years the sign of the rainbow was about God's covenant with Noah, a reminder of His faithfulness. In recent years it's lost that meaning as it has been politicized and used for the LGBTQ agenda. When CEOs or college presidents are fired for saying “all lives matter,” which is Jesus’ message, when business people who believe in God’s plan for marriage are sued or threatened, when the science doesn’t matter and isn't real if it’s biology instead of climate, then, yes, the message is political.
I am pro-life, which is also Biblical, which is loving our weakest and most helpless neighbor, but if I had a poster of an aborted baby or a pro-life message in front of my Lakeside cottage, someone would be offended and say abortion is a political issue.
All science is based on God's truth, not fantasy, carbon taxes, and red tape to strangle business. The Bible does promote biology as truth, and not a word that humans control earth's destiny--except as caretakers. All lives matter to Jesus, but that phrase can get you fired if you say it.
Yes, we have no life without water, Lake Erie was formed by a melting glacier as the earth warmed. There are many images of water, God's covenant with Noah--the first rainbow--baptism, crossing the Red Sea, the River Jordan, etc. that are Biblical, but on this sign water has no Biblical meaning.
Tuesday, July 23, 2019
Blogger writes about Lakeside and the popsicle vendor
Monday, July 22, 2019
Guy's Club detour
Sunday, July 21, 2019
Of garage door and paint brushes, bursitis and AC
The van needs an oil change and a good cleaning of the seal around the rims because the tires are leaking. So I’ll need to make an appointment during my exercise routine. At 5:30 a.m. I went out to buy milk and orange juice and noticed the roads were being blocked, and then Giant Eagle didn’t open until 6 a.m. so I went to Get Go and got what I needed, and while returning home (in the dark) found still more blocked streets.
When we tried to leave for church we discovered the roads were blocked because of a bicycle race and it was almost impossible to go west, but finally found an area with police directing traffic, but for probably the second time in our lives, we were late to church. I sat in the last row thinking I wouldn’t have to walk (limp) to our usual pew, but was fooled again since it was communion Sunday and I had to walk all the way to the front anyway. I skipped kneeling—figured I’d never get back up!
Leaving for our SALT group meeting at noon (lunch and Bible study) we discovered that the garage door wouldn’t go down. This had happened a few weeks ago and our son-in-law fixed it, but he’s at the lake. Bob called, and he told him what to do.
Our furnace was to be repaired this week, but there were 3 messages on the answering machine that the price for the part had gone up and did we still want to do it? Of course, you can’t reach them on the week-end. Meanwhile, we can only run the AC either full blast or off, so it’s on until it gets cold and we shut it all down.
But huge tragedy—Bob seems to have left several of his favorite watercolor brushes at the Rhein Center where he was teaching on Thursday, and didn’t notice it until we got to Columbus. He’s had those brushes over 50 years, they are top quality and would cost a fortune to replace. We’re hoping they didn’t get mixed into the general supply of brushes purchased at Wal-Mart for the kids’ classes.
One thing worked out. I had 3 empty honey jars, and on our way home from SALT, we stopped buy Steve’s home, turned in the jars and got 2 jars of honey.
And our daughter just called and said the 20” stove we had sitting on the porch at Lakeside has been sold. I had a sign tacked to the telephone pole, a man saw the stove, knocked on the door and asked jokingly if this was the Thompson cottage (people we bought from in 1988). Frank Thompson was a well known figure in Lakeside and taught generations of children how to swim—including the buyer. He’s going to move it in his golf cart.
Saturday, July 20, 2019
Recalling the old fans for hot Hoover nights
“I ordered the first fans from J W Cleary Co., Cols., Oh. (Mike Cleary now has 3 cottages in Lakeside) to raise money for the ’Friends Network” for the infrastruction repairs to Hotel Lakeside. We sold them in the beginning for 50 cents ea. Ordered a better quality (one with picture of Hotel) and sold for $1.00 each. Ted led the ”sales force” at the entrance of Hoover. He held the sales record selling more than 500 on a steamy hot Sat. Night when the OSU Band was appearing. After we ceased our fund raising effort, the Association ordered fans in bulk to use . The late Dorothy Knight helped me immensely with this project. It was fun and productive. Each dime earned was sorely needed to help restore the Hotel. Dee Grindley/”
Thursday, July 18, 2019
Lakeside 2019, Columbus Zoo Animals and Suzi Rapp
Photo by Kevin Sibbring, Lakeside president, who went to elementary school with Rapp in Upper Arlington.
Tuesday, July 16, 2019
Bursitis is really slowing me down
https://gethealthyu.com/best-exercises-hip-bursitis/
While I was using the exercycle at the wellness center today I noticed again how tiny and thin the ladies are who go to the yoga classes, especially when compared to the water aerobics class—there’s a lot of glass in the room, so I can see both.
Lakeside 2019, Week 5
Saturday, July 13, 2019
Thoughts on a summer day--Lakeside 2019
Yesterday Bob went to the Farmer's Market--it's an event of Tuesday and Friday mornings at Lakeside. In June things were sparse, but now the crops are starting to grow. Anyway, he came home with the most fabulous chocolate chip cookies ever. So I went back and got rhubarb, beets with leaves, and romaine. Things we need more than cookies.
Bob has finished all his porch reading, so I went down to the Lakeside Women's Club which has a library and selected a Rita Mae Brown, Crazy like a Fox, novel. She's written a lot--not as much as Mary Higgins Clark, but if he likes her style, it could keep him busy for awhile. She's in her mid-70s and I just won't tell him she's a lesbian activist and feminist.
Dinner tonight is from the crock pot, but it doesn't seem to be doing well, and may have to take a pass through the oven. The program at Hoover Auditorium is Texas Tenors. They are wonderful. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5OG_OsZWnRQ Last night was Three Dog Night, and although I did recognize a few songs (we sat outside a short while in order to protect our hearing), they looked like refugees from North Shore (our local nursing home). It was a packed house.
Each Saturday afternoon, a local talent sings from the pavilion, and I sat on a park bench for awhile--it's very hot but a great wind blowing. He was really fabulous--don't know why he isn't on a bigger circuit. Very few people were listening--just talking and enjoying the afternoon. But he said his wife is a doctor--jokingly said she supports him. Hmm. Gave up a career for marriage?





















