881 Saying good-bye to Mary

She was managing a small agricultural economics "closet" library on the third floor and I was the agricultural economics bibliographer in the "real" library in the same building when we met. I liked her right away. Tiny, white haired, spry, friendly and talkative. And now that I've seen her birthdate on the funeral bulletin today, I realize that in 1978 when we met, she was the age I am now. She was a month younger than my father, born in 1913. Ohio State had a mandatory retirement age back then, and she left there and I believe worked downtown for another 10 or 15 years. I'd see her at church from time to time and she was always cheerful and busy. The pastor at her service today said she always talked about her husband, who died 35 years ago, and her son who died 22 years ago, as though they'd just stepped out of the room.

She was a charter member of our church which started in a basement and now has 10 services and three campuses. At 92, she outlived many of the people who knew her, so it was a small group who gathered to say good-bye. Two years ago her family had a 90th birthday celebration for her in the old fellowship hall/former sanctuary. The pastor said she'd probably helped sand the beams of that room.

The funerals of the old saints are wonderful services. Often worth going to even if you didn't know the person. We hear some great stories, sing the old hymns and hear the Gospel. While waiting for the service to begin, I read through the Order of Burial and compared it to the bulletin. We only used parts, but all of it was lovely. The pipe organ, which had been out for several months repairs and cleaning, was back in place to send Mary on her way.

"Into Your hands, O merciful Savior, we commend Mary. Acknowledge, we humbly beseech You, a sheep of Your own fold, a lamb of Your own flock, a sinner of Your own redeeming. Receive her into the arms of Your mercy, into the blessed rest of everlasting peace, and into the glorious company of the saints in light."
Commendation, Order of Burial, Lutheran Book of Worship.