How divorce affects the children

She’s an adult. Capable.  Stable. Talented artist and writer. A strong Christian. And her father has been unfaithful and left her mother.  The other woman has left her husband and children. The unfaithful couple flaunt their infidelity in front of family and friends.   Thirteen people in the immediate families including grandchildren mentally and emotionally destroyed by infidelity.  “Divorce is a death without a funeral,” she writes, where there are no calls, meals brought in, or offers to help.  And nearly 70 readers write back about their deepest hurts—some after 30 years, or even after never having known their parents as a “couple.”

 http://jeanneoliverdesigns.com/blog/2012/05/27/sometimes-in-the-pain-you-find-your-most-tender-heart/